Racism

Racism only exist because of our past generation has grown with that hate towards one another inside their hearts. Young people in this generation take racism as a joke, they even refer to them self as "Ni**as" meaning "homie". Racism is different between genders. Boys may feel it worse than girls or girls may feel it worse than boys. In books, in articles, in movies and in everyday life I have seen racism in different ways depending on your gender. Racism is different depending your gender because of stereo types like girls are easier or weaker then boys, also boys supposedly smarter then girls but girls are more behave and mature so the people that are raises and hurt people may take this to there advantage.

Young people know about racism everywhere, but they take them as a joke. Teenagers don't know how serious and horrible racism has been. We have had cases of people killing them self because of this reason or murdering somebody because of their race. Racism not only exist towards black people but toward other people like Hispanic, White, African and so on. One big problem the feeds the racism of this world is, the words spoken by our ancestor, it passes on and it just feeds racism because kids grow with these words in there head and even in their hearts such as "I hate these .... people, they are so ..." kids grow hearing this things sense the moment they where born.


When it comes to racism there is a lot of stereo types, all you hear is white boys are smart and rich and white girls are dumb Blonds, black girls have big butty, Nappy hair, and are ghetto, black boys are gang members, do drugs and are failures, i have a black boy friend he is not ghetto nor does drugs or is a failure. Hispanic are easy to nice, punks, and are always pregnant with different baby's father, I'm a Hispanic girl and I'm 17 and not pregnant, I'm not easy and I'm not all that nice. when it comes to Hispanic boys they are punks alcoholic, and rapes and people from the middle east are terrorist. Its different for boys and girls.

When it comes to girls being insulted or a Victim of racism, they generally take it more serious about it, and are more affected by it, I know I do. They are not only insulted because of the color of their skin, they get insulted for who they really are also. When people are raises to girls, they insult them call them names such as female dogs, or easy. They don't talk about not only what color they are but about what they do because of their color. In the movie "A Girl Like Me" the girls talk about how black girls are suppose to have bigger botties than any other raise that's a stereo type, or how they have uglier hair or that they are ugly because of their skin color.

Love day

Saint Valentines day, is know as the love day or just Valentine's day. This day is a feast of Saint Valentines on the February 14 each year. Its a holiday celebrateded worldwide not just America, it is not a day to take of. St. Valentine's day began by a religious celebration of a few Christian saints named Valentinus. This holiday began with Saint Valentine becaused he imprison for Marring soldiers who were not allowed to marry he also was arrested for talking about the Christian Religion to people that were persecuted under the Roman Empire. Saint Valentine while he was in prison he claim that he can cure the doughter of his jailer Asterius. Legend says the Saint Valentine before his execution he wrote "From your Valentines" as his final Goodbye to her.

The best advise I can probably give a couple is to love each other as much as you can shoe some affection. Don't ever lie to your partener it dose not matter if you don't want to hurt them, keep communication open talk about each other, if you guys have a problem then solve it, dont ever go to sleep with out talking about whats really wrong and what bothering you. When you get hurt talk have a mature conversation and don't ever leave out anything and make it feel better. You dont want to go to sleep mad at each other, and when you guys are mad don't say its okay when its actually not. Don't talk about your ex or compare your past relationship to your current relationship. Don't have pride, just forget about the word "PRIDE" , if you got to be the bigger person then do so even if your not at foult. Always say what you mean like when you say "SORRY" or "I LOVE YOU". Always worrie about each other feelings and opinion don't hold anything in, and be their for each other. Also dont you ever forget to be sweet. Stay sweet don't ever forget that sweet Goodmorning and Goodnigh kiss or text. Don't ever be to jelouse with your partener show them that you can trust them by given them their own space to hang out with their friends or go out, let them have fun with out you, blasting their phone you can't always be on their case it can suffucate them and drive them crazy and if you can't do all of this then just LEAVE because a relationship is not real if you dont have communication, trust, patient, tolarence, affection and plenty of love ;)